I am 10 months post op davinci and am pretty much dry all the time. No pads for a long time. I was rarely faithful to my kegal regime after 3-4 months, but I had pretty good ones to begin with. I have an occasional squirt sometimes if climbing ladder or lifting a heavy item and forget to "kegal"... I have also found that alchohol will cause leakage sometimes, but I am talkiing after 3-4 glasses of wine. One or two... no problem.
I do find myself kind of automatically flexing my kegals at randoms times.... driving, thinking, watching tv.. probably average only once every other day. As a side note, I have found kegals do help a little in the ED department for reaching climax. I am about at 70-80% erection with 100mg generic viagra which works fine for sex (except for wife on top - add the vacuret pump to get to 110% for that)... Must be something to do with the geometry during this healing process. Recently I have been able to get to 50-60% w/o pills and just stimulation (including kegals)...