Moderators and Administration,
It was a good day when I found this forum... I discovered others... many others were in the same situation I was in. I gained lots of information and encouragement. I do wish to thank all of you who gave insight and encouragement in my battle. I also thank Healing Well for providing the forum. Most get over the incontinence in 5-8 months. Some sooner. Much sooner. Only a small percentage of us need further treatment for continence months and years later. New devices, such as the Male Sling and the Artificial Urinal Sphincter is available, but not many know much about it... except what doctors whom we pay choose to tell us. But you guys were great in helping me. Thank you.
But I do not understand why one of my posts regarding the urologist (I won't even attempt to use his name, for fear of breaking the new rule) was taken from one of the threads that you deleted and placed on this thread, along with Rock50's post. I deleted my mis-placed post because this is not where I posted it and this is not where I wanted it. It was nobody's place to take my post out of the context it was posted. But somebody did exactly that. It should have been deleted with the rest of the thread. Instead, it was moved out of context without at least giving me an explanation.
I take that actin as a chastisement for writing positive things about the doctor and expressing a desire for him to stay with us. I am offended that was done without offering any kind explanation. There was no word of explanation. None. I guess I know why, but still, it's a guess. I guess it was because I had good things to say about this man who could have served as a great resource to those of us who are trying to stop leaking. I guess in doing that I broke new rule # 19, even before I saw the new rule # 19. I guess. I guess. But I don't know for sure.
Again, thanks to everyone who has helped me over the past 13 months.