Danman, for me personally, I will leak about a tablespoon at climax. I look at it a thinner replacement for the ejaculate I lost from surgery...lol Seriously, I would imagine, if you didn't tell her, than most women wouldn't even notice. Now oral sex would be a different matter, of course. Leaking during normal intercourse shouldn't be a problem for most women. If it is to the extent that a condom is demanded, then a good alternative is to use a small sized silicone penis ring, like comes in penis pump kits, to cut off the flow during sex.
The aversion to urine is natural, I suppose, but shouldn't be. Fresh urine is sterile and harmless. Lots of doctors use it as a built-in sterile irrigation during some bladder and other urinary tract surgeries.
4/19/07 PSA 7.6, referred to Urologist, recheck 6.7
7/11/07 Biopsy- 16 core samples, size of gland around 76 cc. Staging pT2c
7/17/07 Path report: 3 of 16 PCa, 5% involved, left lobe , GS 3/3:6.
9/24/07 (Open) Retropubic Radical Prostatectomy performed
9/26/07 Post-op Path Report: GS 3+3=6 Staging pT2c, 110gms, margins clear
10/15/07 ED- begin 50mg Viagra and Vacurect pump nightly, Fully continent
1/14/08 Caverject started/stopped, aching. 2/24/08 .5ml Bimix started-success
3/24/08 ED- 6 mts.-Viagra, pump, no response- Bimix continues
Post-surgery PSA's: 3 mt:0, 6 mt:0,