Hi Annie ,
I am sure you are anxious for D day and there is really not much to do before surgery but stay healthy, exercise a bit to stay in shape for a faster and better recovery , and do your Kegel daily to develop better control over urinary afterwards.
Seems like you in good hands , widen your knowledge base by research and reading up a lot, that way you are inform of whats ahead and what to expect after.
Da Vinci known to be the least invasive route to surgery and recovery should be faster and easier especially since the cancer is organ contained and will have a nerve sparing procedure you 2 should do fine !!
As you mentioned , indeed you are among the lucky ones to find this board and learn lots from others experience , i wish i have known about
it before my
open RP back in June 2007
Hope all goes well
Good Luck !!!
Keep us posted