At the beginning we used Depend Underwear for night-time and Depend Guards for men during the day... The Guards were a little stiff and we eventually transferred over to Tena / Serenity http://www.tena.us/consumer/Products/SelectionGuide.aspx
Here’s their link for free samples below:
Sample Request http://www.tena.us/consumer/SampleRequest.aspx
They are much softer made for women and not so bulky.
They cup nicely and are very comfortable.
Here’s another thread with info… These pads are hot! started by dawgfan
A suggestion is to ask the pharmacy if they have trial sizes available… this will allow you to try them without having to buy the whole pack! You don’t get unless you ask and the answer will be yes/maybe/no…. worth asking! My uncle was given 3 pair of the underwear to try.... when he had his cystoscopy...
It’s good to hear from you and it’s nice to see that you are staying close.
You are in our thoughts and prayers as we all move forward on a path we found ourselves on…. and new friends to walk with.
In Friendship ~ Lee & Buddy