Educate yourself - it's amazing how much peace of mind it brings. Stick around here and read books.
My doc told me that 40% of men my age (47) were walking around with my level of PCa and had no idea. His message - don't panic. Sounds like yours is early and non aggressive. Weigh your options, get a second opinion and go from there. BTW - opinions i found did not vary much at all. They all agreed I could do watchful waiting, but eventually would need surgery because of my age. I talked to four excellent uro's. You will likely find similar consensus re: your first uro suggested.
47 at Diagnosis.
Father died of Pca 4/07 at 86.
1/06 PSA 3.15
1/07 PSA 4.6 (Biopsy 3/07 just suspicious)
10/07 PSA 5.06 (Biopsy 11/07 1 of 12 with 8% involvment) (1mm)
Da Vinci surgery Jan 5, '08 at Mt. Sinai Hosp. NYC www.roboticoncology.com
Saved both nerve bundles.
Path Report: Stage T2cNxMx
-totally contained to prostate,
-10% involvement in L & R Mid lobes
PSA 0 at six weeks
Pad free on March 14 - (10 weeks.)
ED - Take 100mg viagra every night.
Totally usable erections at 10 weeks.