Some figures I have in a book say that only 10% of prostate surgeries result in incontinence. Of that number, the majority of the incontinence is temporary -- clearing up by itself after a few months or a year or two. As KW said, he is one of the unlucky ones.
Those of use who hang out in this forum, do so because of some concern or problem. As a result you will see a lot more incontinence problems here than in the prostate surgery population generally. I am hanging out here because I have another problem, not incontinence.
So I suspect ...
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