The forefinger is on top/side of the head, with middle finger pretty much underneath for support.
Thumb and ring finger are down the shaft a little ways....thumb on top....gentle pressure from below and above to cause slight tension.....make sure to avoid urethra, then push it in at a 90 degree angle.
He suggested doing it slightly below the circumcision line...or if uncircumcised, slightly below where the foreskin begins.
Hope this helps....my earlier description was off a bit....lol.
Danman Bob, Born 1951
Nerve-sparing, open prostate surgery November 13, 2007
Gleason score 9, PSA 14; Biopsy result - 9 of 12 sticks showed cancer
Post-op pathology stated that cancer was confined to the prostate
Unrelated surgery January 2008 delayed incontinence recovery, which is now showing good signs of improvement (fraction of a pad a day as of late April 2008)
100 MG Viagra 3 times a week beginning December 2007
Osbon Erec-Aid Esteem manual pump for therapy beginning mid-February 2008
30 MG papaverine/1 MG phentolamine bimix injections beginning late April 2008
Five week post-op PSA 0.2, five month post-op PSA 0.1, next test August 2008