Now that.... is a coincidence. I just flicked off an email to you and now reading your post now, all I can say as one of those longer term members, is that I feel you have nothing to apologise for at all. My husband and I have the greatest admiration for how you handled on-line a very difficult situation recently, and we feel you handled it with (as I said in my private email) dignity and strength. Sometimes, it is good to reflect on how we might have handed things differently - we (CJ and I) do this constantly - but in our opinion Tony - you have nothing to apologise for right now. Your best is your best, and in this instance in the last week - it has been truly appreciated by us as two long term (can I say that now although limited posts in 17 months??) members.
We do not post to others forums as a rule (although I have posted one well received and answered, informative question on the breast ca forum) so we really rely on this one, and all its members on a daily basis. We reckon you have done just great - in every way...
PS. Our 12 month appointment yesterday for CJ was "all clear" - Specialist was pleased with 12 montly progress all around - now 6 monthly PSA's for next 12 months then annual - Specialist does not expect reoccurance - we are pleased. Lets get back to the real point of the forum as Walt said recently. THIS IS OUR GOOD NEWS for today.
Thanks Tony for all you do. You have nothing to apologise for and everything to be thanked for, in our opinions. Take good care of you. Lana & CJ