I had an open prostatectomy on 6/13/2008. My doctor says I'm doing pretty well. But I have the typical problems with incontinence and lack of erections. I'm focused on the incontinence right now. I'm using two pads per day, which I think is pretty good at this point. I joined this forum mainly to have a chance to relate to people who are going through (or have gone through) the same process. It's pretty frustrating as you all know.
I'm doing Kegels (5 sets of 10) each day and trying to maintain a positive attitude.
My heart goes out to all of you in similar situations.
Signing off for now.