I am a surgeon but not a urologist and had a laparoscopic prostectomy about
a month ago. I am dry at night but have to go quickly to the bathroom 5 times or so nightly. I have almost no bladder control after sitting or walking more than 15-20 minutes. I heard about
the Afex system here on this forum. My urologist didn't mention it to me. I had been going through about
8 depens per day and didn't like the chafing. I ordered the Afex starter pack and everything is much better: no daytime wetness. It isn't totally comfortable but is a lot better than wet depens. I don't work for the company (didn't even know it existed until about
two weeks ago). But for others like myself, you can order it by phone (no internet ordering) from http://www.arcusmedical.com/afex_catalog.htm
. The telephone number is on their site. I hope this helps someone else. I'm looking forward to eventual continence, but realize that can take months.