SbringR and Smokie,
Don't lose hope. Give her time and give yourself time. Sometimes I'm afraid we guys try too hard and give our wives the impression that all we want from them is sex, which is a turn-off to lots of wives. They want to know we love them as a person and as a best friend. Cuddle with her very, very often. If she allows you, carress her (in "neutral" places and in those other wonderful places). Be very, very kind and understanding. And, if you live in an area where "Fireproof" is being shown in a movie theater, take her to see it. By all means, avoid **** (p orn). That will set you up for a big fall in your marriage.
You are doing very well, it seems, toward regaining potency. Don't give up. It's too early.
Smokie, are you still considering the implant? Again, don't give up on options.
PC diagnosed 12-06 @ age 63
Radical open removal 2-14-07, Gleason 3+3=6
Removal of stricture 6-07, incontinence continues
Scheduled for AUS & IPP 05-08
Surgeon cancelled one day pre-surgery, due to cardiac concerns
Nuclear stress 5/13/08
3 stents 5/27
AUS, IPP implanted 07-16-08
AUS, IPP was activated on 08-18-08. They both work!
10-20-08 went back to surgeon for a follow-up. Both devices are working very good and surgeon was very pleased that I am very pleased.