Sebring: Has your wife seen the doc? Mine experienced some troubles a while back that turned out to be hormonal. She now takes hormone shots (estrogen I think?). After the shot, she's ready to go. But as they wear off, so does her desire.
Chas: Your fortunate that everything is at least functional. As for me, I am experiencing equipment trouble. However, I too sometimes feel that my desire is slipping away. After two years of trying, I now have a lot of days where I just don't feel like its even worth trying anymore. I have been on-the-pump for several months now, but I'm getting to the point where I just can't make myself go through it. It depresses me that I feel this way, because part of me remembers when sex was an overwhelming part of my daily thought processes. Now I wonder if I will ever have the desire or the ability to have sex again.
I don't really feel like watching ****, but I guess it might help to wake things up. Assuming your ethically ok with that, do you think it might help?
PS: I don't mean to sound so darned depressing...just having a bad morning.