As many treatment options are available, the hardest thing is making the decision and feeling confident. Cheers to you and your husband for reaching resolution quickly. If you have a good surgeon with whom you feel comfortable and he is experienced, he should be on a road to recovery soon with good results. All paths have their risks, and no guarantees with any of them. But all have good statistical outcomes overall. So there is more chance than not that everything will be ok.
Wishing you a luck with your course of treatment. With the decision behind you, the holiday season won't be gloomy but should be full of hope.
43 yo. now
5/07 PSA 4.65 at routine physical
6/07 biopsy Gleason 7 (3+4)...diagnosed at 41 y.o.
6/07-9/07 manic research and interviews with physicians across the country in search of the "right" decision. I went to Mass General in Boston, Loma Linda, University of Chicago and Northwestern.
9/17/07 - RRP at Northwestern Memorial by Dr. William Catalona. Thankful the father of the PSA test was right here in Chicago.
Post op path report confirmed Gleason 7 (3+4). negative margins, no seminal vesicale involvement, no lymphatic or vascular invasion, bladder and urethral free and tumor volume was 5% of 27.3g.
9/27/07 - catheter removal...let the games begin...
12/31/07 - threw out the pads (I only had used 1 pad per day for protection against minor drips)
I started Trimix 8 weeks after surgery with success. I hope someday I won't need injections, but I hope more that my PSA stays at 0 forever.
9/17/08 One year past surgery and doing well. PSA less than .1 and ED continues to get better and showing reasonably good results using Levitra which for a long time did nothing.