Hello, me too,
Welcome to the site. We are all in this together and I have received so much input and info. that is almost overwhelming. My recommendation is to do your homework. Research all you can about this nasty circumstance, and make your decisions accordingly. This is the only site I go to for insight and a wealth of experienced gentlemen (and in some cases, their wives), to get more information and an idea of what I can expect down the road. There are some great people here like Biker, TC, and James C.. They can tell you mluch more than I can because I'm fairly new here but I don't miss a day without checking in. Do fill out the signature profile. It helps.
Stay in touch.