Posted 12/4/2008 7:37 AM (GMT -6)
9 weeks is still very, very early.
Are you sure you're doing your Kegels correctly. Your doc can give you a referral to a biofeedback therapist who will train you to do kegels correctly.
In addition, avoid alcohol, it always caused me significant additional leakage. Same with citrus fruits and juices.
For short term help, original sudafed (psuedoephedrine) slowed the leakage.Doc also had me on Imiprimine which didn't help much, but apparently works for some.
I'm sorry to say this, but you're in for a long, frustrating slog, but don't declare yourself unlucky until at least a year has gone by. By then 98% of men are dry.
I know how tough it is. Believe it or not, you get used to it!