Many thanks LV-TX and Selmer,
I have found what may be a positive. Dr Joe Chin is a doctor and professor at one of Canada's best medical universities. UWO in London, Ontario (near me). From articles I've found and help on this site, he has participated largely in:
4) open and many others
My GP spoke of him and his team highly for prostate cancer in this area...today. My URO didn't mention him. My GP said if he referred me to him, he would do one of many possible options...but, he would perform the procedure himself...I asked that specifically.
I believe my GP was also wise when I asked him who has the best rep here for prostate removal...he said no one. All have problems somewhere with procedures and side effects.
Maybe this is my next step in looking at this.
Anxiety still high...Any info from others on the above would be gratefully acknowledged.
BTW all 6 DRE in last 12 months were benign or nothing found. Prostate size is 42 or 44 cm squared on TRUS...I'll get correct number tomorrow and update my update.