I know your frustration. All I can say is hang in there. I am in the same crowd.
I had surgery in July 2008.
I had no real problems with erections after surgery. Then in October I started finding it more difficult. At that time I got an infection in the surgery site area. I have been on antibiotics with a drain for a month now. Erections are basically non existent.
I go to my doc on Thursday. Hopefully he can shed some light on this... And hopefully the drain will come out too. I am tired of the tubes and collection ball.
Anyone have any ideas on the shorter penis like devlin mentions? When I get an erection, it is the same size as before surgery. But when flaccid, it is really really different. So much that I have a difficult time sitting on the toilet and having urine go in the toilet bowl. In 25 years of marriage, I never had urine running down the front of the toilet. Now it had happened a lot. I have not had a chance to ask my regular doc but will on Thursday. The assistant kind of passed it off as not knowing.
I too am having some "down" times and wonder if I need some mood drugs. I really don't want them as I had to use them years ago and was glad when I got past that.