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vs1vs2
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Joined : Dec 2008
Posts : 60
Posted 12/26/2008 12:42 PM (GMT -8)
Hello all,

I am new to the list of members and have recently been compelled to post.  I have been lurking since May 08 when I was first learned that my PSA was "elevated".  GP was not worried but sent me to a uro and insisted on a biopsy.  Uro told us he would not have done a biopsy (he did not schedule one originally but GP insisted) for a 48yo with a 2.96 PSA.  I am thankful for a great GP.

I am encouraging other lurkers to join.  I have been helped so much by the knowledge and info of the members here.  I have also been encouraged by the compassion and understanding of the members and spouses.  NO ONE who does not have this disease can fully understand what it is like.  The doctors (even the good ones) seem to miss the full explanantion of the ramifications of this disease.  I got so tired of hearing people say "It is only prostate cancer, they can treat that easily!"  They do not understand the side effects and often completely miss the fact that it is still CANCER.

Here, people get it.  I read almost daily, the posts of so many.  It encourages me and helps me deal better with those who do not understand.  I know many have greater concerns than I do but at least they understand where I am.  My post surgical path report states that margins were clear and the GS was still 6 which is great.  They think it is all gone but they never really know.  I will always be awaiting the next PSA (next 1/7/09) to make sure it does not come back.  At least those here understand the rejoicing that goes on when you remain in Club 0.  So many celebrate with those who post.

Thank you to the members of this unwanted club for helping me daily.  Those of reading this who are looking for info, consider joining and asking the questions that don't get asked elsewhere.  There are people here who do understand.

Looking forward to 2009,

Tim 

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Tony Crispino
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Joined : Dec 2006
Posts : 8160
Posted 12/26/2008 12:56 PM (GMT -8)
Tim,
You are most welcome. And great post. I second the call to join a support group when you hear those magical words "you have cancer". It helped me tremendously. I was not hesitant after listening to a doctor tell me about my cancer. There is nothing wrong in making new friends who are experienced with prostate cancer. Welcome and stay with us. Somewhere down the line you end up converted to a helper instead of the helpee...but that is what makes this site so wonderful.

Tony
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Purgatory
Elite Member
Joined : Oct 2008
Posts : 25448
Posted 12/26/2008 1:10 PM (GMT -8)
Tim, glad you are here, though the membership requirement is so tough. Great place to connect with others of like ailment, great place for advice, giving and receiving, for sounding off, for venting. It's been a big, big help to me. Hope to see you here often.

David in SC
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livinadream
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Joined : Apr 2008
Posts : 1382
Posted 12/26/2008 1:11 PM (GMT -8)
Thanks for the compliments Tim and welcome to the sight. We try to be as accomodating as possible, yet filter out unsolicated information. It is important that this sight keeps it's personality and integrity and I will say the moderators do an outstanding job. We appreciate you being here and hope you stay. May the grace of the Lord and the fellowship of family and friends comfort you during this battle.

peace and love
Dale
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divo
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Joined : Jul 2008
Posts : 637
Posted 12/26/2008 6:38 PM (GMT -8)
Reading Tim's post was just wonderful. Those of us who are in the trenches can understand each other's joy at good news, and depression at sometimes less than good. Pete has been reading the book: AntiCancer....A New Way of Life.....by Dr. Servan Schreiber..... I mentioned it before, but I really am so eager for each of you to read it. There is a wealth of information in the book and it is documented, and written by a physician who has cancer. One of the most important things is to avoid sugar....Cancer cells feed on sugar....A hundred years ago the average person ate about 12 pounds of sugar a year. Today the average person eats over 150 pounds of sugar..It surely can't hurt to avoid as much sugar as you can. Happy New Year..!! Di..
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Tim G
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Posts : 3057
Posted 12/26/2008 7:59 PM (GMT -8)
Welcome to the forum, Tim.  You're right, people here get it.  We differ in our opinions, but we've paid our 'dues' to be here.  There is a powerful bond between men (and women who love them) who have prostate cancer.

Hope to hear more from you....Tim

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