I have some good reading for you:
"Beating Prostate Cancer:Hormonal Therapy and Diet" by Charles "Snuffy" Myers. In it he describes several cases like your husbands. He goes into case studies about how to acheive a remission when the cards are stacked against you. Myers himself is a survivor of stage IV disease with a Gleason 9.
Age 46 (44 when Dx)
Pre-op PSA was 19.8
Surgery on Feb 16, 2007 @ The City of Hope
Post-Op Pathology: Gleason 4+3=7, positive margins, Extra Prostatic Extension (EPE)
Bilateral seminal vesicle invasion (SVI); Stage pT3b, N0, Mx
HT began in May, '07 with Lupron and Casodex 50mg (2 Year ADT)
IMRT radiation for 38 Treatments ending August 3, '07
Current PSA (September 17 '08): <0.1 ~ Undetectable!
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