Welcome to HealingWell, njw,
Many great folks here to help you out. We also have some helpful hints in the fixed threads above. I came here before my surgery and found caring, loving people that were very glad to help. Your post above I found in another thread, so I moved it here to continue the discussion, and so that more members could see you in case they may be able to help. My surgery was a couple years ago almost and is becomng a distant memory. My nerves were spared and I was prescribed Cialis in 20mg doses. I was told I only needed 5mg but my doctor was aware that my insurance would only pay for so many, and he knew I could chop them in half myself. I have also tried other ED drugs as well. I had some early success, but I completely lost it due to additional therapies. We are seeing some improvements in my ED but I will have to lose a couple other medications first. I am scheduled to be free of those drugs starting in May, the Lord willing. Many of the guys here have had good luck in their recovery, and I wish you the same. My motto is stay positive! And it's a pretty good idea.
If you get a chance, a signature like I did below will also help others identify with your experience. You can do that in the control panel