Lost another friend to cancer

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mvesr
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Date Joined Apr 2007
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   Posted 1/6/2009 7:31 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi everyone
 
Yesterday I lost another friend to cancer.  It really bums me out.  He was only 50 and it was not prostate cancer but a great lost to his friends, family and co-workers anyway.
 

Mika
age at dx 54 now 56
psa at dx 4.3
got the bad news 1/29/07
open surgery Duke Medical Center 5-29-07
never more than 2 pads
Tossed the pads this spring
ED still a problem
Got a shot last week and it was great
A year an a half of zero's
 


Purgatory
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Date Joined Oct 2008
Total Posts : 25353
   Posted 1/6/2009 7:50 PM (GMT -7)   
So very sorry to hear that.
Age 56, 56 at DX
PSA 7/7 5.8, 7/8 12.3, 9/8 14.9, 10/8 16.4
3rd Biopsy 9-2008 Positive 7 of 7 cores positive, ranging from 40 - 90%, G 4+3 & 3+4
Open RP surgery  November 14, 2008 at St. Francis Hospital, Greenville, SC, Dr. Ronald Smith - Surgeon, Non-nerve sparing, 4 days in hospital, staples removed 11/24/8, Catheter out on 12/15/8 on day 32.  Day 33, urine stopped flowing, new catheter put in 12/16/08, Catheter out 12/29/08.  After 7 hours, complete stoppage again, emergency room put in Catheter #3 early evening of day 45, still 12/29/08. 1/5/9 - Cath #3 out, dr. did cycloscope, saw potential blockage, put in Catheter #4, further tests/treatments 1/9/8.
Post-surgery Pathlogy Report:
Gleason 3+4=7, pT2c pN0 pMx, Prostate 42 grams, tumor 20% cancer
Contained in capsular, neg. margins apex, bladder neck, right lobe, neg. in seminal vessels and lymph nodes.
First PSA Post Surgery  Scheduled now for 2/9/9
 
 


Tony Crispino
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Date Joined Dec 2006
Total Posts : 8128
   Posted 1/6/2009 8:11 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Mika,
I will repeat myself again ~ This disease is stupid. I still have sad days about my mother, even my step father and he died of lung cancer 11 years ago Friday on the same day we suffered another tragic loss that was not cancer related. I hate this disease.
 
My consolences, Mika.

Tony


Age 46 (44 when Dx)
Pre-op PSA was 19.8
Surgery on Feb 16, 2007 @ The City of Hope
Post-Op Pathology: Gleason 4+3=7, positive margins, Extra Prostatic Extension (EPE)
Bilateral seminal vesicle invasion (SVI); Stage pT3b, N0, Mx
HT began in May, '07 with Lupron and Casodex 50mg (2 Year ADT)
IMRT radiation for 38 Treatments ending August 3, '07
Current PSA (September 17 '08): <0.1 ~ Undetectable!
 
You can visit my Journey at:
 
STAY POSITIVE!
 
 


Doting Daughter
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Date Joined Aug 2007
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   Posted 1/6/2009 8:37 PM (GMT -7)   
Sorry for your loss. Cancer sucks.
Father's Age 62 (now 63)
Original Gleason 3+4=7, Post-Op Gleason- 4+3=7,
DaVinci Surgery Aug 31, 2007
Focally Positive Right Margin, One positive node. T3a N1 M0.
Bone Scan/CT Negative (Sept. 10, 2007)
Oct. 17 PSA 0.07
Nov. 13 PSA 0.05
Casodex adm. Nov 07, Lupron beg. Dec 03, 2007 2 yrs
Radiation March 03-April 22, 2008- 8 weeks 5x a week
July 2, 08 PSA <.02
Oct. 10, 08 PSA <.02
Praying for a cured dad.

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KrisP
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Date Joined Mar 2008
Total Posts : 162
   Posted 1/6/2009 8:45 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Mvesr
I understood how you felt about losing your friend to this stupid disease. I lost a friend also to lung cancer a last month and he was only 55 years old.
Age: 54
Occupation: Mechanical Engineer
Home: Dallas/Fort Worth Area
Biopsy: 3/5/2008; Pre surgery: Gleason 6 (3+3), involving left lobe
Clinical stage: t2b. DaVinci Surgery on 4/21/2008 in Austin by Dr Randy Fagin.
Pathologist report upgraded to a Gleason 7 (3+4); Clinical stage upgraded also to a T3a; Margins: Clear
First post surgery PSA = < 0.04 (Undetectable)
Second PSA (10/27/08) = < 0.1 Undetectable


Frank1205
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Date Joined Feb 2008
Total Posts : 308
   Posted 1/6/2009 9:51 PM (GMT -7)   

My heartfelt thoughts to you on the loss of your friend.  What is there to say that makes sense.

Frank


Sam Benton
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Date Joined Dec 2008
Total Posts : 35
   Posted 1/7/2009 2:37 AM (GMT -7)   
Mika,
Sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with you.

Sam

LV-TX
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Date Joined Jul 2008
Total Posts : 966
   Posted 1/7/2009 7:01 AM (GMT -7)   
Sorry for your loss Mika...one of my bowling team members died of lung cancer last month...he too will be surely missed.
Les
 
Age 58 at Diagnosis
Oct 2006 - PSA 2.6 - DRE Normal
May 2008 - PSA 4.6 - DRE Normal / TRUS normal-Gland 38 cc
July 2008 - Biopsy 4 of 12 Positive 5 - 30% Involved Bilateral (Perineural Invasion present at base)
Gleason (3+3) 6  Stage T1C
August 23 - Bone Scan - Hips, Spine and ribs marked uptake - X-Ray showed clear -Hooray
Sept 9 2nd DRE - questionable - TRUS...shadow in base - Gland now 41 cc
Robotic Surgery Sept 18, 2008
Pathology October 1,2008
Gleason 7 (4+3) Staged pT2c NO MX
Gland 50 cc
Seminal Vesicles and Lymph Nodes clear
Positive Margins Right Posterior Lobe
4 tumors in prostate - largest being 6 cm 
PSA Oct 08 <.05


M. Kat
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Date Joined Jul 2006
Total Posts : 715
   Posted 1/8/2009 6:15 AM (GMT -7)   
Mika - sorry to hear about your friend. take care,kat
Husband Jeff 56 years old diagnosed July 27, 2006
PSA 6.5, 2 positive areas in biopsy, Gleason 3+3=6
Radical Retropubic Prostatectomy August 30, 2006
pathology report - all clear - cancer gone
1st post-surgery PSA test <0.1, 2nd post-surgery PSA test <0.1, 3rd PSA <0.1
no more pads Oct 12, 2006
first "real" erection with use of pump 12/16/06
3/07 - occasional dribbles and erections with Cialis and pump
8/07 - 1 yr PSA <0.1
9/1/07 - achieved erection with Viagra - no pump!
3/08 - 18 mo PSA <0.1
switched to Levitra - works much better than Viagra & Cialis - fewer side affects
summer of 2008 - have had a few erections with no drugs! yeah!!
8/08 - 2 yr PSA <0.1


livinadream
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Date Joined Apr 2008
Total Posts : 1382
   Posted 1/10/2009 9:02 PM (GMT -7)   
Mika, I just saw this post, i am so sorry to hear about your friend. Thanks for letting us know we all truly care about our close nit family here at HW.

Peace and love
Dale
My PSA at diagnosis was 16.3
age 46 (current)
My gleason score from prostate was 4+5=9 and from the lymph nodes was 4+4=8
I had 44 IMRT's
Casodex
Currently on Lupron
I go to The Cancer Treatment Center of America
Married with two kids
latest PSA 5-27-08 0.11
PSA July 24th, 2008 is 0.04
PSA Dec 16th, 2008 is .06
Testosterone keeps rising, the current number is 156, up from 57 in May
cancer in 4 of 6 cores
92%
80%
37%
28%
 


mvesr
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Date Joined Apr 2007
Total Posts : 823
   Posted 1/10/2009 9:29 PM (GMT -7)   
Thanks everyone for your good thoughts and kind words

Mika
age at dx 54 now 56
psa at dx 4.3
got the bad news 1/29/07
open surgery Duke Medical Center 5-29-07
never more than 2 pads
Tossed the pads this spring
ED still a problem
Got a shot last week and it was great
A year an a half of zero's
 

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