I've barely started, but I had a few questions about
post-op sex life:
(1) Does erection become separated from orgasm? Seems like I can have an erection, but that may fade and orgasm may come later. Could it be that groups of nerves have literally become separated, no longer acting in concert? What is the impact of that?
(2) Is frequency still related to horniness? Before, my desire to have sex was related to how often I had it. When my 'strategic reserves' were down, I was not horny, but if time passed I became horny. Since I no longer have 'strategic reserves', is frequency a factor or does one have a steady-state desire?
(3) In general, I hear and I believe I am experiencing, the need for more stimulation. What experiences do people have with how that affects love play with partner, for good or bad?
(4) I also noticed that my 'card deck' became confused. How does one still maintain the strong primal urge towards intercourse when 'the goods' will not be delivered (procreation drive)? The cards in my deck have all switched to pity sex, the naughty nymph mode is gone.
What tricks, tips and ways to mentally buff up does anyone suggest?
Any meaningful citations out there?
Thanks one and all.