Its sounds as you are a very understanding wife of your husbands needs right now, and that will help him recover even quicker. My wife is not quite as understanding of what I`m going through. I`m not saying that she not a good person. Its just, she has her own problems and , thinks I can solve my own by myself, because I`ve always been strong enough to solve my own problems in the past, but cancer is a lot different situation.
I wish I could get her to help in my ED rehab but she doesn`t feel comfortable with looking at my scar from the surgery, and she says she doesn`t like touching my penis now because she doesn`like the rubbery feel of it being non erect.
Anyways, I think that Pete is a lucky guy to have a understanding wife such as yourself.
ps. This is probably something that could be discussed in another post