Intercourse and orgasm are two completely different things - as if that needs to be stated! An orgasm in itself is most likely perfectly safe. I had an orgasm two weeks out. Nothing much happens in an orgasm to cause a problem - a few slightly contracting muscles. Your urethra goes through more than that with urination!
The reason for intercourse caution is because of the physical exertion. Think of doing it missionary position ...Ouch. You could really hurt yourself and the strain is considerable. Even any other easier position gets a bit risky if you get thrusting etc. (that is if you would ever get lucky enough to thrust with anything in the first place!)
So, just as lifting anything heavy is out of the question, so is real intercourse. NOW - M*sturbation, BJ etc are NOT intercourse and as long as you lie there quietly, the likely hood of anything happening is remote to say the least. And to that end...the likelyhood of ANYTHING happening is remote. The first few orgasms are usually disappointing. They might even hurt a bit, feel weird and not even feel like anything at all.
Call your Dr. and double check if orgasm is out, or just sex. My Doc told me that things were pretty well stitched up down there and if I felt like an orgasm, that was a good sign and have some fun.
You learn that specifics are rare in this field.
46 at Diagnosis.
Father died of Pca 4/07 at 86.
1/06 PSA 3.15
1/07 PSA 4.6 (Biopsy 3/07 just suspicious)
10/07 PSA 5.06 (Biopsy 11/07 1 of 12 with 8% involvment) (1mm)
Da Vinci surgery Jan 5, '08 at Mt. Sinai Hosp. NYC www.roboticoncology.com
Saved both nerve bundles.
Path Report: Stage T2cNxMx
-totally contained to prostate,
-10% involvement in L & R Mid lobes
PSA 0 at nine months.
Pad free on March 14 - (10 weeks.) Never a problem since.
ED - Took 100mg viagra every night. for several months
Totally usable erections at 10 weeks, which disappeared over the course of a month or two.
ED bounce is what they call it. Now, at one year, ED is fine with viagra.