Four weeks after surgery and I'm leaking as previously discussed on this forum and men such as Astro also complain about
. Now heres the rub. I just had an argument with my wife about
the pad type and absorbancy. She bought me a light womans pad. I bought a mens extra absorbancy. She argues that the more a pad absorbs, the less I want to control my bladder and the longer I will leak. I argue that I constantly try to control the leaking and more absorbancy protects better. I also argue that the mens pads fit better. She is stubborn. What is your take on pad type and absorbancy?