I think only the most conservative doctor would prohibit an orgasm. Virtually no strain on anything at all. The catheter tugging on stitches is more strain than small muscle contraction. Heck the bladder spasms are more than an orgasm.
Remember, they are covering themselves cause of risk of malpractice. Mine told me to do whatever I felt up to. He said that nothing was going to come undone! A JO a few days after the cath comes out will not feel good, but most of us tried it! there is a huge difference between the physical exertion of sex and the energy needed for JO.
Don't worry so much. Listen to your body. If you feel like you want to do it, go for it.
46 at Diagnosis.
Father died of Pca 4/07 at 86.
1/06 PSA 3.15
1/07 PSA 4.6 (Biopsy 3/07 just suspicious)
10/07 PSA 5.06 (Biopsy 11/07 1 of 12 with 8% involvment) (1mm)
Da Vinci surgery Jan 5, '08 at Mt. Sinai Hosp. NYC www.roboticoncology.com
Saved both nerve bundles.
Path Report: Stage T2cNxMx
-totally contained to prostate,
-10% involvement in L & R Mid lobes
PSA 0 at nine months.
Pad free on March 14 - (10 weeks.) Never a problem since.
ED - Took 100mg viagra every night. for several months
Totally usable erections at 10 weeks, which disappeared over the course of a month or two.
ED bounce is what they call it. Now, at one year, ED is fine with viagra.
One year PSA - undectable!