Thanks to everyone for the help and support in my quest for treatment options and choices.
I was very lucky to get the surgery done by Dr Walsh - he is truly a genius and a truly comforting and understanding doctor. As he says, he treats his patients the same way he would like to be treated if he were to be ill. Dr Walsh saved both nerve bundles and the pathology report just came back all clean, tumor contained.
The suregry was performed on 03/04/09 and I am out of the hospital two days later. I know it will take some time to fully recover but a clean path report can make up for all the incomfort.
Next stop is the post op PSA check, and my prayers go to all who are still fighting the disease.