Its a little more than "communicatiion" X 3. Maybe more like: "open, honest, communication". After my cath was removed, I remember ********** for over a week every night after she went to bed. It was like playing with a wet noodle. Don't remember how we got started back, but it was probably her.
Things arn't doing all that well even now, and over the past three years, I even told her if she needed to step out on me, it was okay.
Diagnosed: Sep/Oct 05 with PSA 6.1
Biopsy: Nov 05 4+2 (first was scheduled in Oct, but I walked out on the doctor.)
Surgery May 06 PSA < 0 ever since Lathroscopic: prostate was so small, he had difficulty saving nerves on left side
This erection thing has been a roller coaster. Sometimes Viagra seemed to work, sometimes (3) time I made penetration without it. Had a couple of near misses with morning erections too. Tried the injectons (bimix) after the vacume device....wrong answer again. Doc changed me to trimix.....painful erections.
Went back to the vacume device until recently. Back on Viagra and bimix. Improved. Just wish I could get harder.
Hope this helps. Good luck.