Hi to All!
I underwent a nerve-sparing (so the doctor told me..haha) Radical Prostatectomy, at one of my post surgical visits with my Oncologist, he said there is a chance the cancer could come back! WHAT? I could not believe this. He said never say never, but if this goes to the bones, then it's radiation time. I thought I was completely out of the woods. Truthfully, as slow as this cancer seems, I'm not sure I should have had the surgery. But at 54 years, I honestly don't know if I did the right thing or not.
What I do know, is despite the possibility of getting more aggressive prostate cancer if I did not undergo the surgery, I would have a more fulfilling (girlfriend nods yeah!) sex life longer,but now with dry orgasms,and limpness ALL the time, it's taking a psychological drain my disposition.
Some say I could have lived normal life even with the low-grade cancer,but at least I could have continues with my erections,but even after four months,I'm still taking .25 mgs of viagra, ordered a pump,and still very frustrated. Guys on here tell me never give up, it will come back with nerve-sparing surgery,every guy is different and may have success before the next guy. IS THIS TRUE? Viagra is used in the healing process,but don't know how it actually stimulates the nerves. I got nothing...only weird,dry orgasms with no stiffness.
For a rare Carcinoid Cancer I'm also lucky to have, (NOT!!!) I have labs done to check elevated tumor marker activity. Blood, it's Chromogranin-A, Substance-P, and in the Urine, it's the 5Haii 24HR. if they are up, then it's a radioactive, nuclear CT over two days, to see if the tumors "light up". If so, it's back into surgery.
But as far as prostate, all I know is the PSA and the Digital,then comes the prostate biopsy,followed by either seeding,watchful wait, or the dramatic non- sparing or nerve sparing surgery. It was the daVinci Robot for me.
On this site, you will find out a lot of information...such as, my doctor never told me that nerves regenerate at the rate of 1/2 inch per month, which I just read on this post. is this True or not? It's some sign of hope.
I'm curious though, has anyone undergone the nerve sparing surgery, taken the prescribed .25 mgs Viagra,cialis, or levitrol more than a year ago, used the pumps,(no injections) and have the nerves grow back and actually have a successful sex life?
** Another post Surgical issue I have is that since they found a leaky suture when they tied back the urethra to my bladder, they kept me in the hospital for additional nine days then sent me home with the same catheter for an extra seven (7) weeks!!! Now everytime I urinate, it's very uncomfortable. The Doc tells me it's probably scar tissue from the catheter. Oh-Boy!
Thanks to all! hang in there, and you all are in my prayers. :)
Post Edited (unhappycramper) : 6/7/2009 2:47:18 PM (GMT-6)