I know what you are saying. I couldn't tolerate it. I went to the med supply place and bought a Zimmerman clamp for daytime use. Once you get it adjusted right. it will stop deribbling, but will allow leakage if you cough, sneeze, exert etc.
Before putting it on, I would coat Willie in baby powder, then wrap a piece of gauze around him, yhen the clamp.
This allowed me to make it on 1 pad a day, and the pad was fairly dry. I exercised my kegals as much as possible. After 8 weeks, I then have enough control to go without the clamp, and use 2 to 3 pads a day.
The clamp dramatically changed my mental state. I just couldn't stand being wet and squishy, not to mention the irritation.
By the way, Go Bucks !
Biopsy - 2/12 cores , Gleason 4 + 5 = 9
Da Vinci, Cleveland Clinic 4/14/09
0/23 lymph nodes involved
pT3a NO MX
Catheter and 2 stints in ureters for 2 weeks due to anatomical issues with location of ureters with respect to bladder neck.
Try 3 tubes where no tubes are supposed to be for 2 weeks !
Neg Margins, bladder neck negative
Thankful for early diagnosis, and U.S. healthcare
Living the Good Life, cancer free
6 week PSA undetectable.