Honey, (and please don't take that the wrong way, the fact that you posted means that you care alot about
your husband), just because your husband/boyfriend had a bilateral nerve sparing surgery DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL EVER HAVE NORMAL SEX AGAIN! I knew this before I had my surgery by reading all the blogs of the guys who had devinci surgery with nerve sparing and still didn't get normal erections. The bilateral nerve sparing surgery is overhyped for effectiveness, whether
open or robotic. As somebody already told you above they have to peel the nerves off the prostate before removing it which does damage to the nerves. How much depends on the surgeon and the patient's anatomy. If viagra, cialis and levitra don't work trimix/bimix is your ONLY answer.Opps I forgot the VED, but that never worked for me. The injections are not that painful, I look forward every week to my trimix injection. I would inject 2x/wk but my penis has kind of bent a little from the injections and I don't want it to bend a whole lot more. I'm treating that now too with vitamins and traction device. With trimix/bimix you get a nice, dependable erection without a whole lot of effort. True the kisses in the dark, the foreplay before spontaneous sex are gone, but if you want intimacy with your husband again, this is all there is, and it sure beats the alternative of no sex..
my age=52 when all this happened,
PSA went from 1.9 to 2.85 in one year, urologist ordered biopsy,
First biopsy on 03/08, "suspicious for cancer but not diagnostic"
Second biopsy on 08/14/08, 2/12 cores positive on R side, 1 core=5% Ca, other core = 25% Ca, Gleason Score= 6 both cores,
Clinical Stage T1C
Bilateral nerve sparing Robotic Surgery on 09/11/08, pathological stage T2A at surgery
No signs of spread, organ contained,
3 0's in a row now, 10 months out
Incontinence gone in early December '08,
ED remains, still taking daily viagra for penile rehab, uro said try oral meds and then trimix for sex only now, Peyronie's Disease a problem now