I have been taking cytolopram for a couple of months now. I find that it works pretty well however there is one major side affect that can be fun but I would like to get over it. It is described in the leaflet as 'delayed ejaculation'. It means that when having sex it is difficult or even impossible to climax. I have recently started seeing someone, we have slep together a few times and I have never climaxed. We basically keep going untill we give up after a couple of hours of wild sex. She loves it but it is very frustrating for me and not natural. I have tried not taking any for a day before and this doesnt work. Does anyone know of a cure for this without stopping the medication?