would you think about
putting your email address on your profile? I get NO spam from Healing Well. and it would be easier to discuss some of this where there are no women or children of patients.
But - having said that, I think JamesC, our illustrious moderator once said that there are two times in life to explore your sexuality. First is adolescence. Second is post PCA! This might also be better discussed on FrankTalk!...since it's...welll....frank.
If your wife is not keen on some of this, there are a few things you can do. First of all...Shave. Most women do not like hair...or the smell of it either. Trim it close, get a body groomer and trim it back. Or Shave altogether. There are MANY reports that women will find it easier to do if you are cleaned up down there. Wash up....everywhere down there. Take a shower. smell good. not like...well, you know.
Also, many women are afraid of gagging or losing control. Now that there will be no surprises at the end, it should help allay some fears. but make sure she is in control and in charge.
Then let's hope you are returning the favor. There are some real good techniques you should all be using...like finding her Gspot, etc.
Not sure this discussion should be here, but figured I would add my two cents.
46 at Diagnosis.
Father died of Pca 4/07 at 86.
10/07 PSA 5.06 (Biopsy 11/07 1 of 12 with 8% involvment) (1mm)
Da Vinci surgery Jan 5, '08 at Mt. Sinai Hosp. NYC www.roboticoncology.com
Saved both nerve bundles.
Path Report: Stage T2cNxMx
Pad free on March 14 - (10 weeks.) Never a problem since.
ED - at one year, ED is fine with viagra.
One year PSA - undectable!
ED Website: www.FrankTalk.org
- frank discussions of Erectile Dysfunction - check it out.