You guys with dry orgasms, you don't know how very lucky you are. I would give anything to be able to have a dry orgasm. Since my surgery in 9/2007, whenever I have an orgasm now, I will ejeculate urine. Matter of fact, I ejeculate urine with more force now without my prostate than I ejeculated seman with my prostate. With a good intense orgasm, I can hit the ceiling when I ejeculate.
I have tried to empty my bladder before sex, but I will still ejeculate some urine with orgasm and drip during foreplay. The doc says urine is steril and will not hurt your partner if you get some in her, but just try telling that to a woman.
I tried using a condom, but then I can not maintain a erection because I can not feel anything. You don't know how frustrating this is. I was very lucky to have no ED issues after my surgery, and I can get a pretty rock solid erection without any drugs, but as soon as I get aroused, I can actually feel my splinkter muscle start to relax and I will start to leak. I have to cover the bed in towels so I don't wet the sheets. I also have to be very carefull during foreplay so I don't drip on my partner. Taking all these precautions take all the fun out of sex now. Boy, what I would give to have dry orgasms.
Biopsy 6/2007 - PSA 4.5, 2 of 12 with <5% cancer Gleason 6
Surgery 9/2007 Uni of Rochester Strong Memorial NY with Dr. Jean Joseph (1300 plus surgeries)
Path - Negative margins, cancer in 20% examined tissue, Gleason 6
Post Op - No ED issues, full erections without drugs, used 5-7 pads a day for 3 months. Now dry except for stress leaks now and then.
All post op psa's <.04