I am so sorry for loss, the same thing almost happened to my wife 2 weeks ago. She was in a psych hospital for severe depression, nobody got her up and walked her. She got real short of breath and her oxygen saturated plummeted so they sent her to a ER. The scan showed blood clots all over her lungs. It was touch and go for 5 days. I cried most of the time, we too have been married almost 30 years. Please hang in there, the people on this forum on the most wonderful caring people I've ever known. I do know how you are feeling, I still cry at times when I think about
what happened. I will pray to god for you and hope that you have family to see you through this time................
my age=52 when all this happened,
PSA went from 1.9 to 2.85 in one year, urologist ordered biopsy,
First biopsy on 03/08, "suspicious for cancer but not diagnostic"
Second biopsy on 08/14/08, 2/12 cores positive on R side, 1 core=5% Ca, other core = 25% Ca, Gleason Score= 6 both cores,
Clinical Stage T1C
Bilateral nerve sparing Robotic Surgery on 09/11/08, pathological stage T2A at surgery
No signs of spread, organ contained,
4 0's in a row now, 14 months out
Incontinence gone in early December '08,
ED remains, still taking daily viagra for penile rehab, uro said try oral meds and then trimix for sex only now, Peyronie's Disease stabilized, no progression, yay!