Some DO's - for a change

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James C.
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   Posted 12/10/2009 10:29 AM (GMT -6)   
WE seem to always discussing the DON'Ts when discussing the Rules, so I thought I might share some DO's from Peter's Rules and Information Page. I added a little tidbit to the end to maybe help people to understand we Moderators job better.

Guidelines (DO's):

1. Check for open topics. Before posting a new topic, please check to see if there is already a topic open on the subject.


1a. Take time to look at the date of the last post in a thread before posting. You may be going to post to a thread that is 1, 2 or more years old, with the chances that whoever you are posting to has moved on and is no longer active. If you are looking for an opening to make your first post, go ahead and click Post New Topic and start your own thread by introducing yourself and making your comment or asking your question. This is a better way to do it than bringing up old posts, some of which may have deserved being left in the distant past.

2. Ignore bothersome members. If there is someone on the forum that bothers you, select the Ignore button at the top right corner of the post. You won't see any posts from this member again.

3. Report posts that violate the rules and guidelines by selecting the Admin alert button at the top right corner of the post to notify the administrator. We will act on the report as quickly as we can. Do not reply to the offending post as that typically only encourages the poster.

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8. Use descriptive titles for new posts. Avoid "generic" post subjects like "Help" or "Question". You will receive a better response to your posts by being more descriptive about the content of your post.

9. Shorten your signature if possible to save bandwidth. Uncheck the "include signature" box if you post more then one time in the same thread.

10. Food For Thought - Hey Brothers...When possible combine your
questions into one thread instead of starting a new one... Also when
possible try to find answers to your questions in previous threads.

We need to try and free up some time/effort and resources for new
members that join us...

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Please Remember:

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Rules and guidelines may change at any time, please re-read them regularly.
James C. Age 63
Gonna Make Myself A Better Man tinyurl.com/28e8qcg
4/07: PSA 7.6, 7/07 Biopsy: 3 of 16 PCa, 5% involved, left lobe, GS6
9/07: Nerve Sparing open RRP, Path: pT2c, 110 gms., all clear except:
Probable microscopic involvement of the left apical margin -GS6
3 Years: PSA's .04 each test until 04/10-.06, 09/10-.09- Uh-Oh
ED continues: Bimix .30cc & Trimix .15cc PRN

Post Edited (James C.) : 11/24/2010 9:51:04 AM (GMT-7)


James C.
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   Posted 5/24/2010 9:01 AM (GMT -6)   

James C.
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   Posted 7/12/2010 10:25 AM (GMT -6)   
bump up for new friends
James C. Age 63
Gonna Make Myself A Better Man www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6cX61oNsRQ&feature=channel
4/07: PSA 7.6, Recheck after 4 weeks Cipro-6.7
7/07 Biopsy: 3 of 16 PCa, 5% invloved, left lobe, GS3+3=6
9/07: Nerve Sparing open RRP, 110gms, Path Report- Stg. pT2c, 110 gms., margins clear
3 Years: PSA's .04 each test since surgery, ED continues: Bimix- .3ml PRN, Trimix- .15ml PRN


twash
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Date Joined Jun 2010
Total Posts : 14
   Posted 7/12/2010 10:37 AM (GMT -6)   
A thread i began has run it's course. How do I get it to disappear, or do you take them off after a period of time?

James C.
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   Posted 7/12/2010 10:48 AM (GMT -6)   
twash, you can just let it work itself down the list, off the front page and further back, as new posts are being posted. This is the best method, if there was any information or discussion worth keeping for those who may read it later. If you wish, you can delete your initial post and the thread by logging in, and clicking the X on the right side of the your first post itself. This will delete your post and any responses you got. However, this is not encouraged, as this deprives others who come after from maybe gaining some help.
James C. Age 63
Gonna Make Myself A Better Man www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6cX61oNsRQ&feature=channel
4/07: PSA 7.6, Recheck after 4 weeks Cipro-6.7
7/07 Biopsy: 3 of 16 PCa, 5% invloved, left lobe, GS3+3=6
9/07: Nerve Sparing open RRP, 110gms, Path Report- Stg. pT2c, 110 gms., margins clear
3 Years: PSA's .04 each test since surgery, ED continues: Bimix- .3ml PRN, Trimix- .15ml PRN


twash
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Date Joined Jun 2010
Total Posts : 14
   Posted 7/12/2010 11:21 AM (GMT -6)   
OK. That makes sense. Thank you. By the way, this forum has been extremely helpful.

James C.
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Date Joined Aug 2007
Total Posts : 4462
   Posted 7/26/2010 7:13 AM (GMT -6)   
Monthly bump up for new friends
James C. Age 63
Gonna Make Myself A Better Man www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6cX61oNsRQ&feature=channel
4/07: PSA 7.6, Recheck after 4 weeks Cipro-6.7
7/07 Biopsy: 3 of 16 PCa, 5% invloved, left lobe, GS3+3=6
9/07: Nerve Sparing open RRP, 110gms, Path Report- Stg. pT2c, 110 gms., margins clear
3 Years: PSA's .04 each test since surgery, ED continues: Bimix- .3ml PRN, Trimix- .15ml PRN


James C.
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Date Joined Aug 2007
Total Posts : 4462
   Posted 8/27/2010 3:51 PM (GMT -6)   
Monthly bump up for new friends

James C.
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Date Joined Aug 2007
Total Posts : 4462
   Posted 11/24/2010 10:12 AM (GMT -6)   
Monthly bump up for new friends
James C. Age 63
Gonna Make Myself A Better Man tinyurl.com/28e8qcg
4/07: PSA 7.6, 7/07 Biopsy: 3 of 16 PCa, 5% involved, left lobe, GS6
9/07: Nerve Sparing open RRP, Path: pT2c, 110 gms., all clear except:
Probable microscopic involvement of the left apical margin -GS6
3 Years: PSA's .04 each test until 04/10-.06, 09/10-.09- Uh-Oh
ED continues: Bimix .30cc & Trimix .15cc PRN
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