Urine on ejaculation

Nearly 8 months out from op and things seem reasonably good, just waiting for a blood test to be done. I am 99.9% dry with just an occassionable damp patch. ED is the problem, but as yet have taken no meds, but I can get partial inflation. I have noticed that on the point of climax there is a spurt of urine, but I do try to empty the bladder prior to stimulation. Is this a continuous problem or will it ease in time, I have long since done away with condoms as I had the snip many years ago. So, it looks like a trip to the pharmacy. All the best from a very cold England.

I am 2 1/2 years post surgery and I still ejeculate urine, and I have seen no improvement since my surgery.  I was very lucky in not having any ED issues after my surgery, and I can achieve a pretty rock solid erection without taking any drugs, so I feel thankful for that.   But the major problem I do have is that as soon as I start feeling myself starting to get sexually aroused and an erection comming on,  I start to feel my splinckter muscle relaxing and I will start dripping urine.  Even if I try to empty my bladder before sex, I will still drip some urine with an erection, and I will still ejeculate urine with orgasm.   With a really good intense orgasm, I can ejeculate urine with such force I can hit the ceiling.  Too bad you can not take a pill to color your urine white.

I talked to my uro and he said that this is just something you have to live with and is one of the side effects surgeons never tell you about.  He told me that if you ejeculate some urine into your partner, not to worry because urine is sterile and it can not cause any harm.  Try telling that to a woman!!!!

This has really put a damper on my sex life because now when ever I think about having sex,  first I have to go try to empty my bladder, then I have to get towels and put them on the bed so I don't drip all over the sheets, then I got to worry about ejeculating urine when I have an orgasm.  Maybe this is the contributating factor why I lost my libdo after surgery.

I sure hope your urine ejeculation improves, because I would not want anybody going through what I am going through.  It is like torture. I am lucky enough to have no ED issues after surgery and can get rock solid erections,, but I can't use them because I leak every where.  Well, I guess this is a small price to pay for not having cancer.

Never had that happen before, not even a drop. That could be a difficult thing to deal with on a regular basis.

Thanks James. I may try that solution. Same issue here, 1 year out. Sometimes no urine, sometimes a lot, regardless of emptying before. One thing that seems to make some difference is how much fluid you've taken on in the couple of hours before becoming active. More means more urine production, so more in the bladder after emptying but before climax. Note that this statement is only about as accurate as english grammer rules.

Rolerbe,,,,I tried your solution about not drinking a lot of fluid hours prior, but I find that even with this, I will still drip some urine, and now because the urine is much more concentrated, it tends to have more of an oder to it which makes things worst.   Since I can not stop the leaking no matter what I do, then at least I want it some what less replusive, so I find by drinking a lot of water hours before sex, the water dillutes the urine so much as to make it have no oder what so ever and it almost clear in color.  This  helps makes it a little more less repulsive and acceptable.

I think I am going to try James solution and see if that helps. 

I too have used the rings technique with good success.
Also when I used MUSE the last couple of times I simply used a not-too-tight ring-with-beads-inside ring just below the head of the penis -- not at the base. You can get those rings online anywhere (Adam and Eve for instance). That keeps the nuisance drips at bay, and it is quite decorative too -- and "adds that little extra bumpy roughness that women love" (quote from the description -- hah hah).

I am not sure if it would keep the orgasmic spurt at bay tho -- i usually chicken out and clamp down on penis no matter what kind of ring system I have in place.

As far as shooting urine at orgasm goes (away from the bed -- in the shower -- VERY far shoot) i would say that any spurting is better than no spurt at all -- brings back a little of the old times now gone.

I would have liked my pre op "spurts" to have been as powerfull as my post op "spurts". I have obviously found that emptying the bladder prior to the event cuts down on the amount of urine lost. Just wait and see how things progress. Allthe best from England.

Zen9, there is a good possibility the 'leak' you are seeing is from the Cowper's Gland, which often remains after surgery. It's the same clear pre-lub you saw in the past, not in as large amount, but still present. Several guys here have commented that they see it afterwards, in an oozing out manner.

James,

THANK YOU!!!!!!!

I didn't think it was urine, but I just assumed it had to be - even though everything about it said it wasn't.

I very much appreciate the education, as always.

Zen9