In working on my website and talking to lots of men, I've decided to add a page on rediscovering your sexuality after surgery. Part of the ordeal is simply getting used to completely different sensations. My first line of attack is to help guys find new ways to m*sturbate after surgery. I had a hilarious talk today with a man who could not believe that one did not need an erection to have an orgasm. Poor guy. Anyway, we probably tried jacking the old standard way and did not find it quite worked as well as it did when an erection was at the ready.
The target audience of this is men after surgery and are discovering that things just aren't working the same anymore. Instead of being depressed, what coud you tell him, or what technique did you use to awaken Mr. Happy after surgery? Instead of just tugging him to death, did you try anything new, different, unusual etc? Different stimulation? anal stimulation?
I know some of you may not be crazy about posting this out in the open here - But we've all been there. And believe me, you have no idea how much posting something like this could help a guy who is getting desperate to feel something pleasurable. But if you are uncomfortable with people seeing it here, would you be so kind as to email me at firstname.lastname@example.org?
I am making a page to help guys discover their new bodies even when all they have is a limp penis. I talked to one guy today who says he wished he had had some input that first year after surgery!
The next project will be sex techniques with your partner - yes, there are the books to help with this, but the best news comes from the guys in the trenches!
Thanks so much