My orgasms, although totally dry, are at least as good as pre-surgery. (It's pretty much the same, maybe better).
I can orgasm without an erection.
At this point, I can get an erection, but not at all serviceable.
Still, it doesn't bother me one bit. My main goal is beating this cancer (unfortunately, there will be no quick answer to that; I'll have to live from PSA test to PSA test, every 3 months at this time). The second goal was to be continent and that is achieved (a spurt here and there, no big deal).