Jerry: My stats are a lot like yours and BB Fan, I finished my SRT on Dec. 29, 2009. I've been on HT since August of 2009 and plan on staying on it until August of 2011. I figured I'd throw the kitchen sink at the cancer and see how I did. My PSA has been >0.01 since I started HT. The HT journey hasn't been a bed of roses but it hasn't been unbearable either. As BB said get Dr. Meyer's book, it disspells some of the myths of HT.
There have been some breakthrough trials recently and I'm not talking about Provenge. Arbiterone and MDV 3100(I think that' the number) have shown a tendency to stop PCa in its tracks so there is hope for guys who have tried Surgery and SRT and subsequently failed them.
Find one of the top Prostate Onc's and follow his lead but I wouldn't wait too long as Dr. Meyers says"why would you let the cancer get stronger, it makes no sense to do so."
Good luck, I truly believe we'll still beat this thing.