I can totally understand Worried guy's handling of the whole topic - it is just way more comfortable for many people to do that. But if other guys let friends and neighbors know about
the PCa, then could it be that these are educated, caring people who simply want you to know that they care and understand? i doubt most people really have a prurient interest in anyone's sex life. Yes, some people do cross a personal line, but most people who are friends don't. There are social clods everywhere. Any friends that have said anything to me, my answer has been exactly what Jeff's was - "I'm lucky".
If they are indeed friends, they just want you to know they understand - they probably are not really curious, and this was their feeble attempt at dancing around a difficult subject.
ED website for PCa guys
46 at Diagnosis.
Father died of Pca 4/07 at 86.
10/07 PSA 5.06 (Biopsy 11/07 1 of 12 with 8% involvment) (1mm)
Da Vinci surgery Jan 5, '08 at Mt. Sinai Hosp. NYC www.roboticoncology.com
Saved both nerve bundles.
Path Report: Stage T2cNxMx
Pad free on March 14 - (10 weeks.) Never a problem since.
ED - at one year, ED is fine with viagra.
Two year PSA - undetectable!