I agree with the other guys, it just takes time.
Usually, you will be dry at night first. I remember having to pinch Willie so hard it hurt while I was running to the bathroom the first few weeks. Eventually, it got better, and I was dry at night.
But it took me 8 months to get pad free. Because of my work, I actually used a clamp for a month or so, so I didn't wet myself while working with high voltage. I know how frustrating, embarassing, and uncomfortable it can be, but it will get better.
Keep those kegels up. Cleveland Clinic has guys buy a kitchen timer and do a kegel every 12 minutes. Other techniques can be found on google that fits your preferences. It may take 4 weeks or so until you really feel the results of the kegels.
The mid stream stop is a good indicator of your progress.
Good luck, just relax, and let nature take its course.
Age 58, PSA 4.47 Biopsy - 2/12 cores , Gleason 4 + 5 = 9
Da Vinci, Cleveland Clinic 4/14/09 Nerves spared, but carved up a little.
0/23 lymph nodes involved pT3a NO MX
Catheter and 2 stints in ureters for 2 weeks .
Neg Margins, bladder neck negative
Living the Good Life, cancer free 6 week PSA <.03
3 month PSA <.01 (different lab)
5 month PSA <.03 (undetectable)
6 Month PSA <.01
1 pad a day, no progress on ED. Trimix injection
No pads, 1/1/10, 9 month PSA < .01
1 year psa (364 days) .01
15 month PSA <.01