You might be a bit more free to post this on FrankTalk where it is much more
open - and men only. BUT - There are two things: if you are not getting the pulsations of muscle contraction at the point where ejaculation ocurred, that is something I would talk to a urologist who specializes in ED. Clearly, if the best your surgeon can say is, "Things take time to heal" - he does not know an awful lot about
what should be happening. Most men, even completely limp, will get those pulsations. The ache is almost certainly nerves firing directions to the nonexistent prostate to let er rip. With nothing there, a sympathetic response is taking over. The prostate bed can certainly feel as if it is at the base of the penis/top of scrotum - at the interior bulb of the penis.
The first sex therapy exercise I would do, would be to ********* and edge for a LONG time. 30-45 minutes at least. do not orgasm. Do you get the endorphin rush when you do that? I would also take an orgasm with sex completely off the table right now. Sex, for the next while, is just about
intimacy and her completion. Do not even attempt an orgasm during intercourse. Spend a lot of time rebuilding and retraining nerves with **********. She can certainly help, but do not orgasm yet. Get used to a higher and higher level of stimulation. Then after you master this, we can talk about
going over the edge.
ED website for PCa guys
46 at Diagnosis.
Father died of Pca 4/07 at 86.
10/07 PSA 5.06 (Biopsy 11/07 1 of 12 with 8% involvment) (1mm)
Da Vinci surgery Jan 5, '08 at Mt. Sinai Hosp. NYC www.roboticoncology.com
Saved both nerve bundles.
Path Report: Stage T2cNxMx
Pad free on March 14 - (10 weeks.) Never a problem since.
ED - at one year, ED is fine with viagra.
Two year PSA - undetectable!