I was in a similar situation, my uro informed me about a bit of leakage I might experience and that I may have ED for a period. I had both and at 6 months out am still at 1 to 2 pads a day but have progressed past the ED stage. Had I not come across this forum and taken the initiative to do my own research, buy a pump, order Viagara from ADC and have my wife help with stimulation I don't know where I'd be in the ED recovery situation.
You must take things into your own hands to progress if you're not getting the support you think you should from your Urologist. I credit this site with my progress and can only hope others find the same value in this community.
Biopsy, both lobes involved
open RP May 18, 2010
Pathology: 15% involved, lymph nodes and v. d. clear, margins clear
June 3-10 10-12 pads/day
2 months 8 pads/day
Aug 1, 2010 5-6 pads/day
Aug 20, 2010 3-5 pads per day
Aug 16, 3 month PSA: undetectable
ED 95% with viagara
Sept 22, 2 pads a day
Oct 12, PSA 0.03
ED, 100% with viagara, just doeable without