Interesting that he considers only 'improvement' not total continence as success. Also, you said:
'My expectations are clear. I want to leak 0 ml day, use no pads, have spontaneous erections a couple of times a per week, and loose about
5 pounds around my middle. But I realize that might be a tad unrealistic - at my age once per week should be acceptible.'
I suppose you were addressing us and not him? Would have been interesting as what his response would have been, other than peeing himself laughing and falling out of his chair..
Glad you are making a decision and look forward to sharing your journey with you. Good luck.