First welcome to the Forum, thanks for sharing your story. I read that orgasm is 90% mental and 10% physical. I think most guys go thru a period when they have a little 'difficulty', some with getting an erection and some with having trouble climaxing. I suspect there's a lot more who have the second that would admit it. I would suggest that the first step to take would be to retrain your brain. Things are probably all mixed up now, both in the brain and the nerves that provide sensation. We also can lose out edge or confidence, and even equate ejaculation to orgasm capability. Most ED docs would tell you to begin a steady and regular course of masterbution . Do it daily, if possible, use vibrators, hands, helpful spouse, with lots of lube , whatever works to get things going again. Once you have one, you will find they are different feeling. More spread out, more internal, and usually much more intense, you know the toe curling kinds. Good luck. let us know if you have any success.
James C. Age 63
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4/07: PSA 7.6, 7/07 Biopsy: 3 of 16 PCa, 5% involved, left lobe, GS6
9/07: Nerve Sparing
open RRP, Path: pT2c, 110 gms., all clear except:
Probable microscopic involvement of the left apical margin -GS6
3 Years: PSA's .04 each test until 04/10-.06, 09/10-.09- Uh-Oh, next in Jan & Feb.