Move over! You're sitting in my wet spot!
I had my DaVinci job done on July 2009 when I was 56. I've been hauling around a load of pee between my legs for 16 months. I have not had a natural erection since then. With all the money I've force fed into my wiener though pee pad and med purchases, you'd think it would at least respect me in the morning. What do I get for the effort? Clear my throat and it dribbles warm pee over my balls and into the pants.
So what's the upside?
I'm on the top side of the snow. I have sling surgery scheduled for 1/10 that gives me a 50% chance of reducing the cash I send to pay for Kimberly Clarke's CEO's daughter's pony's gourmet hay.
I'm still titrating my Trimix and, with the right size dose, supposedly I'll be able to perform like a p*rn star. (There are several single guys here about
your age that have mastered the art if inject and go without theri partners knowing. I'm not there yet, but there's hope.
I'll never squirt again but to be honest, I don't think there's a woman on the planet that actually likes that part. I can have sex without the mess - except for that little issue of the pee.
My PSA was 23 when I started. Now it's <0.01. That means I'll have a chance of seeing grandkids (if my kids ever get off their butts, move out and get married. Isn't 30 little old to be sleeping in the same bedroom they had their cribs? They'd better get busy. ) I still enjoy the work I do. I still have cash in the bank and can help people. I am not in pain. I can eat what I want. Life is good.
I won't disagree with you - you got a raw deal:
You're in the peak depression season - the winter solstice with all the darkness and cheer (happy fa-la-la.); You've been told you have Gleason 8,9,10; And worst of all - You found this HealingWell site because you needed it. Cr*p man! No wonder you're depressed! It shows you're normal!
Give it a chance. Stick around a bit and get educated. There are some great guys in the same position as you and they really have their act together. I can tell by your writing you're a smart guy. You'll get your head on straight, too. I figure another 2 months should do it. Wanna bet?
If you need advice about
incontinence or just want to blow off steam you can email me, talk on the phone or whatever. I'm in Western NY.
Welcome to HealingWell - the club no one wants to join.
Jeff (the leaking one)
Post Edited (Worried Guy) : 12/25/2010 7:59:11 PM (GMT-7)