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bluebird
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Posted 1/19/2011 10:14 AM (GMT -8)
Dear Forum Family and Friends,   Caring is Sharing   I wish to share with you that Bill "Jetguy" lost the love of his life.  Jan passed away on Tuesday.  I know he's going to need our extra support system even more now.  HealingWell is truly that... Helping us to heal well in all areas. Hugs from *bluebird Lee, Buddy, and Murphy Post Edited (bluebird) : 1/20/2011 7:44:53 AM (GMT-7)
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bluebird
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Posted 1/19/2011 10:15 AM (GMT -8)
Dear Jetguy and Loved Ones,   A smile, a touch, a gentle laugh remembered,    a voice softly whispered in the wind…   May the memories held deep within your heart      help to soothe your spirit at this time.   Keeping our wings around you during this time.   Lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about .   Hugs from Buddy, Lee, & Murphy
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James C.
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Posted 1/19/2011 10:18 AM (GMT -8)
Jetguy, it breaks my heart to hear of the loss of your beloved. Know that we all will be thinking of you as you have to walk this path the next few days, weeks, months and years.
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Cajun Jeff
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Posted 1/19/2011 10:33 AM (GMT -8)
Jetguy, know that all of us are with you in spirit in this difficult time. We walk with you my friend.

Cajun Jeff
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Purgatory
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Posted 1/19/2011 10:39 AM (GMT -8)
Jetguy,

I am in total shock. As long as I have known you, you have spoken nothing but lovely things to say about your wife. I know you were a couple deeply in love. My heart goes out to you, I can not comprehend the level of loss you must be feeling.

We are all here for you at HW, we are you brothers, your sisters, and your friends.

Will remember you in deep prayer this day.

David in SC
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Jerry2
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Posted 1/19/2011 10:41 AM (GMT -8)
 

Jetguy,

MJ & I are deeply sorry for the loss of your wife.  You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jerry1

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clocknut
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Posted 1/19/2011 11:01 AM (GMT -8)
Jetguy,
So very sorry to hear this news. Beth and I will remember you and your lovely wife in our prayers.
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tatt2man
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Posted 1/19/2011 11:05 AM (GMT -8)
Bill-Jetguy:
- so sorry to hear of your loss -
-our most sincere condolences to you and your family -
hugs
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BRONSON
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Gordy
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Posted 1/19/2011 11:18 AM (GMT -8)
OMG Bill. I can't believe it. Sincerest condolences from Carol and me.

Please e-mail me - I lost all your info in a dead computer.

-Les
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Purgatory
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Posted 1/19/2011 12:36 PM (GMT -8)
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Magaboo
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Posted 1/19/2011 12:39 PM (GMT -8)

Hi Jetguy. I'm so sorry to read the sad news. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.

Mag

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BillyMac
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Posted 1/19/2011 12:49 PM (GMT -8)
Oh Bill, that's such terrible news. . I can only begin to imagine how you feel. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family at this so difficult and sad time.
Bill
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Posted 1/19/2011 1:24 PM (GMT -8)
Bill,

My most sincere condolences to you and your family.

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MrsGFM
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Posted 1/19/2011 1:41 PM (GMT -8)
So terribly sorry about this news.
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keysailfisher
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Posted 1/19/2011 1:56 PM (GMT -8)
Jetguy,

I'm really sorry to hear about your loved one, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Neal

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Tony Crispino
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Posted 1/19/2011 3:34 PM (GMT -8)
We love you, Bill...

I am so sorry for this news. I don't really have any words for this except to say ~ keep your mach up.

Call me if you would like to chat...

Our sincerest condolences.

Tony and Ruthie
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gold horse
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Posted 1/19/2011 3:36 PM (GMT -8)
jetguy I am sorry and pray for you and your family in this dificult time.

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myman
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Posted 1/19/2011 4:17 PM (GMT -8)
I'm so very, very sorry to hear of your loss...there are no words.
Thinking of you
Susan
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Herophilus
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Posted 1/19/2011 5:56 PM (GMT -8)
Jet,
So very sorry.
Hero
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Swimom
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Posted 1/19/2011 8:57 PM (GMT -8)
Jet,

I am so very sorry for your loss. And thank you for sharing a little about Jan and your family over the years in our chats. Your family is amazing. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.

God Bless,

Swim
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creed_three
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Posted 1/20/2011 12:26 PM (GMT -8)
Jet, Our thoughts are also with you in your very sad loss. Lana & CJ
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Ed C. (Old67)
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Posted 1/20/2011 1:40 PM (GMT -8)
Jetguy,
I'm sorry about the loss of your beloved wife. Your loss is great, and words cannot compensate for it. Please know that you have the support of all your brothers on Healingwell.
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jetguy
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Posted 1/20/2011 3:18 PM (GMT -8)
Thank all of you for your kind words and thoughts.  I must say that this is an incredibly painful experience.  I had thought that the death of my wife would be similar to my parents, or my brother.  I can tell you that it is an order of magnitude worse.  My sorrow is intense.

It is my good fortune to have quality people and organizations in my life.  My chief pilot took another pilot off the schedule to organize things and be available to me full time.  My daughter's boss flew an employee in from out of town to be with her and help out around the house.  He is catering our celebration of Jan's life on Saturday.  Friends are feeding us through next Wednesday and longer if we wish.  I am completely off the flying schedule and have been since she was hospitalized on the third of January.

According to young Will, Nana was his 'best girl'.  Mine too.  She had an incredible capacity for love.  Her joy in life was doing things for others.  Especially for me and Will.  She was the finest person I have ever known.  I am sick in my heart.

Bill

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Purgatory
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Posted 1/20/2011 3:28 PM (GMT -8)
Bill,

Thanks for sharing in the height of your grief. As long as I have known you, you have only spoken glowing things of your wife and your marriage, I have always respected that. If it were to happen to me, not sure I could make it. If you ever want to talk by phone, just e-mail me a number.

May you find strength and beauty during this darkest moment, bless you, brother.

David
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sheepguy
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Posted 1/20/2011 3:47 PM (GMT -8)
Bill/Jetguy.

I haven't been around too much here, don't really need it ..yet, but here is a little thing I found a few years ago and added a little to it...don't know who wrote it , but I've found it strangely comforting at times like these:

The only way around these things is through them. So if you bury your dead, bring a shovel, if you burn them, warm to the fire. Look into whatever riddance you consign them to. Lend a hand, or stand and weep, or watch and wonder. But stay until it is over, until it's done.
Keep the names of your dead alive among your people. You get one father, one mother, one true love, one life and a couple of good dogs if you are lucky.. There's no easy way to do this. So do it right: weep, laugh, watch, pray, love, live, give thanks and praise; comfort, mend, honor, and remember.
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