OK, OK... I get it. Chill, do my kegels, walk like a mofo and give it time
I can do that!
Not a single doctor (and I interviewed 6, from places like Duke, UNC, Vanderbilt and 3 private practices) made a point of telling me that leaking could be significant.. they all glossed over it and almost every single one said things like "you'll see some leakage when your stressed.. you know, like when you cough, sneeze and get up from a sitting position".
No one said I might be gushing non stop for a while... so my worry was less about
realities of leaking and the dramatic difference between "some leakage" and heavy, steady leaking I'm seeing early on.
I'm not whining or complaining just a little shell shock and wondering what I can do about
it... You've given me what I needed to reset my expectations and physical recovery.