Welcome to our Fraternity no man rushes to join. To bad about the ability to get a 2 for 1 deal on the operations. With your younger age and lower Gleason do you have the option of looking at any radiation treatment like Brachytherapy seeds in NZ? If so you might at least get a consult for this if you are a good candidate. Being single and young the upfront side effects will be a lot less with long term cure rates about the same as surgery.
Terry The Water Guy